It is essential that you and your partner feel as confident as possible on your wedding day. It is one of the biggest days of your life, and all eyes are on you. Besides making sure that you look gorgeous in your wedding dress and tux, and knowing that there may be some sexy bedroom costumes involved on your wedding night, here are four things that you can do to improve your confidence for your big day.
Make sure that you trust your wedding planner and vendors.
Planning your wedding day, particularly if you are having a big affair or lots of people coming, can be incredibly stressful and overwhelming. If anything goes wrong in the planning stage – and nothing every always goes precisely to plan – it can give your confidence a significant knockback. Make sure that your wedding planner and vendors understand your vision and how you envisage your big day going, and above all, make sure that you trust them. This allows you to leave the planning and to deal with any issues in their capable hands, meaning you can relax and enjoy your big day.
Face your insecurities
Our insecurities are what is holding us back from feeling confident. While it is easy for us to say that you will look beautiful on your wedding day no matter what you weigh, if you think you are overweight and you feel down in the dumps because of it, you are not going to develop confidence in that area overnight suddenly, so you have to learn to deal with it or do something about it.
If your insecurities are caused by something that you can’t fix – perhaps scarring, then try to find a way of accepting them. Again, this is much easier said than done, but try to take a different approach to your ‘flaws’ – they make you who you are, and are unique. Also remember that the person that you are marrying loves you for who you are, despite any perceived flaws, so should you!
There are all sorts of expectations for couples getting married – where their wedding should be, what they should wear and whom they should invite. To feel confident during your wedding, you have to be selfish and plan the day that you want. It is your day, celebrating the love that you and your partner have for one another, so it should reflect you as a couple, not what other people want. Don’t spend your wedding acting how you think a bride or groom should act because that’s the done thing, just be yourself and enjoy every moment of it. Attempting to live up to someone else’s expectations is setting you up to feel less confident and enjoying your special day much less than you should.
By following these tips, you can have the wedding day that you have always dreamed of and feel confident all day and all night long!