Are You A Woman Who Ask For Too Much Or Too Little?

As a woman, do you feel like you are asking for too much? Sometimes I do. I feel like I am asking for too much and it IS a hard pill to swallow. I have come to the realization that it is not that I am asking for too much, but the person I am…

Being Courageous About Your Love

So a friend of mines did something that was so damn courageous, I was so proud of her. She did something that she thought she could never do, and that was express how she felt without the baggage from her past stopping her. I mean, it had prevented her from expressing herself before but, she…

An Open Letter To My Emotionally-unavailable Love Interest

Sometimes I feel like I am holding on to something that is magical. A connection that only a few people ever get to experience. But there have been moments that I felt like I am wasting my time, waiting for you. Maybe that is my fault, maybe that is your fault.  I never been in…

Build a tribe and change your life

Building a tribe of like minded individuals who possess the same goals and aspirations in life can be easy, if you take a strategic approach to it. A strategy of empowerment, building, collaborating and creating. But first, let’s break down the term, “Tribe” to a simpler definition. “A social division in a traditional society consisting…

Organic relationships and Love affairs

When you think of the word Organic, it is almost always synonymous to “healthy“, “simple” and “natural“. So when you think of an organic relationship or love affair, you would naturally blend the three together. A healthy, simple and natural thing. Only not all relationships are simple and a lot of them aren’t healthy. But…

The Gift and The Curse of being a Muse

“I wonder if it’s possible to have a love affair that lasts forever.” – Andy Warhol The relationship between a Muse and a Artist can be complex, intuitive, and intimate. It is noted that the artist would want explore all facets of their chosen muse. Desiring to know every part of them. Most Muse/Artist relationships…

Relationship Woes And How To Conquer Them

  You’ve met someone and you genuinely like them. They’re cute, smart, talented, amusing.. They’re just perfect. And they feel the same way for you. But like all relationships, problems rear its ugly head and add all bumps, in that one time bump-less road. Jealous friends on either side, family affairs, cheating, deceitfulness. There are…

Five Friends Every Woman Should Have

If you grew up in the same era as myself, then you have probably watched shows like “A Different World”, “In Living Single”, “Girlfriends” and probably even “Being Mary Jane”. You’ve watched how the friendships and sisterhood was celebrated and admired after. Every woman deserves a circle of friends that she can rely on, she…

What is intimacy?

Intimacy is the flirtation, it is the stimulation, it is the skin sensation, the exploration, the titillation, the penetration. It is your eyes, dilation, our hands, temptation, my body, vibration. No complications. Intimacy is Coltrane playing over and over, while blowing thick white clouds towards the ceiling. It’s no inhibition, no judgment. It is time…

Bro… She’s too young for you.

PICTURE THIS: You have just met a beautiful girl at the mall with her friends. She’s young, attractive, got a cute little body and appears to be intelligent. So you are shooting your shot, she’s smiling and y’all are vibing and everything seems to be copacetic. So you ask her “How old are you?” and…

So you wanna date…. A thug.

So… You want to date a Thug. You’ve probably heard Fetty Wap’s “Trap Queen” or even watched the Box Office Hit, “Straight Outta Compton” and said to yourself, “I want me a thug.” “I want a bad boy.” Well Thugs aren’t pets and they aren’t plants either, you can’t just give them three square meals…