As a woman, do you feel like you are asking for too much? Sometimes I do. I feel like I am asking for too much and it IS a hard pill to swallow. I have come to the realization that it is not that I am asking for too much, but the person I am asking it from can’t offer
Read moreAs I am sitting here writing this, I am listening to “I used to Love Someone” by Anthony Hamilton from his “Soulife” album. This song has gotten me through some real heartbreaks in the past. As the narrator of the song, Anthony talks about a woman who he once used to sustain a love for. How she changed on him,
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When you think of the word Organic, it is almost always synonymous to “healthy“, “simple” and “natural“. So when you think of an organic relationship or love affair, you would naturally blend the three together. A healthy, simple and natural thing. Only not all relationships are simple and a lot of them aren’t healthy. But with this concept called,
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The text messages stop, the phone calls has diminished and your notifications on your social media accounts haven’t been popping’ lately. No your phone isn’t dead, but it is on life support. Trust your phone is on the threshold of being acquainted with Jesus. But there are many ways to get that hotline of yours back on its feet.
Read moreIntimacy is the flirtation, it is the stimulation, it is the skin sensation, the exploration, the titillation, the penetration. It is your eyes, dilation, our hands, temptation, my body, vibration. No complications. Intimacy is Coltrane playing over and over, while blowing thick white clouds towards the ceiling. It’s no inhibition, no judgment. It is time moving ever so slowly. It
Read moreI think it is all a part of growing up when you meet someone when they are at a different point in their lives from yourself. This person could be looking into a serious commitment, just getting out of a relationship or even currently in one. When you manifest the type of person that you always wanted but they aren’t
Read morePICTURE THIS: You have just met a beautiful girl at the mall with her friends. She’s young, attractive, got a cute little body and appears to be intelligent. So you are shooting your shot, she’s smiling and y’all are vibing and everything seems to be copacetic. So you ask her “How old are you?” and she responds, “18“. You are
Read moreSo… You want to date a Thug. You’ve probably heard Fetty Wap’s “Trap Queen” or even watched the Box Office Hit, “Straight Outta Compton” and said to yourself, “I want me a thug.” “I want a bad boy.” Well Thugs aren’t pets and they aren’t plants either, you can’t just give them three square meals a day in hopes of
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Do not Drake and text! No, you did not read that wrong. It’s a campaign to prevent lonely individuals from contacting their exes in hopes of reconciliation and mending their broken heart. Well, it may not be a real campaign, but it should be. As you may know, Grammy-winning artist and the President of the Light Skin Community (Just
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